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Misterhystersisters.com is an information website for families of the Hysterectomy patient. Mister Hyster Sisters website is not intended to
take the place of a physician.
Hyster Sisters receives a lot of email from men. The email is usually short and to the point: What can I do to help my wife?

The Hyster Sisters website was created for "women to women" online support for hysterectomy decisions and support providing articles for pre-op, post-op and hormone therapy along with live discussions within the forums of the site.

But we know that the men, the husbands of the Hyster Sisters, lurk online, reading the website, trying to gather information to help them understand what is happening to their wives and girlfriends. They are frightened. They are confused. They want to help.

"Hello. My girlfriend had a hysterectomy today. She has had endometriosis since she was 12. I know that this is probably for the best but I am having a very difficult time trying to understand all the implications and I am scared to death of not being able to support her to the very best of my abilities. Any advice on what I can do to make her recovery more pleasant?"

"My wife has been a rock through this whole thing and I am the one who has been walking around like a train wreck. Other than the obvious, what can I do?"

"My wife is going to have a partial hysterectomy. I would like to know how best to care for her. What should she eat? Will she have chills? What do I need to prepare for emotionally? Anything that would help me care for her better? I would like to hear from all of you, because everyone has different needs. The more feedback I get, the better I can care for my wife. Thank you all for your help!"


And so, this website is for you: the men of the Hyster Sisters. It is our goal that this website will help you to take care of your Hyster Sister.
Why a MisterHysterSisters Guide?
Since 1998, HysterSisters.com has provided help and support for women as they walk through hysterectomy decisions, pre-op and post-op recovery. The HysterSisters Guide is a book written with the same goal in mind. It is available through the HysterSisters store and shipped directly to customer. The HysterSisters Guide

In order to provide helpful information and a realistic picture of how family members, husbands, children can help the hysterectomy patient, we created the downloadable book in PDF format. It is not shipped to the customer but rather, is a computer file that is easily opened and read from your computer. Print it out for reading away from the computer. Its easy to purchase and easy to download .

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NEWS!

I have great news for you! We can make a difference!

Today, I have information about new research that could help address a problem plaguing millions of women after their hysterectomy. That problem is diminished or lack of sexual arousal.

Approximately 20 percent of adult women experience an inability to maintain sexual arousal. Female sexual arousal disorder (FSAD) occurs despite adequate focus, intensity, and duration of sexual stimulation. While other sexual dysfunctions can be associated with emotional factors, FSAD is often a physical condition; and one that may potentially be treatable.

Women who have undergone surgical procedures such as a hysterectomy are often susceptible to FSAD. These surgeries can cause changes in blood flow, which may lead to a lack of sensitivity and sexual arousal. A lack of arousal can lead to feelings of concern, disappointment, and unhappiness. In addition, many women feel that their relationships with their partners are affected.

Right now, there is a clinical study underway, specifically designed for women who have had a hysterectomy. The study will evaluate the safety and efficacy of a topically applied remedy designed to improve sexual arousal in these women.

What’s great about this study is that it focuses on us: HysterSisters. We know that HysterSisters have different health needs that must be addressed. We need to participate in appropriate research so doctors know what is really needed for our optimum health. I have a feeling this may mean good things for us, ladies!

If you want to find out more about participating in this research, or know of someone else who may be interested, click here:
http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/view_alista.htm

to learn more or call this toll-free number; 1-866-4-ALISTA (1-866-425-4782). Let's continue working together to make a difference.

Blessings galore,
Kathy

P.S. Pass this info on to any other women who have had a hysterectomy. Its time for “all hands on deck” as new research helps our generation and the generation of women to come!


Questions from Mister Hyster Sisters

* Relationship Problem

My wife of 18 years had prolapsed uterus removed. I took two weeks off to stay with her and care for the children cook meals and generally be the mom/dad thing. I wanted to do this and went well until about 4 weeks post op when my wife informed me that she did not love me anymore, and does not want me to be even see her out of her clothes. This surgery was performed vaginally, and I also stayed with her all nite at the hospital, tending to her needs. Our relationship was never better up to and just after the surgery, and the surgery even seemed to bring us closer together...for about three weeks. I have not attempted to be intimate with her, for about 7 months. Thats right I said months before the surgery, as I did not want her to feel uncomfortable with the prolapse and all, so its been about a year since we have been intimate, and I still do not press the issue. I can wait. Is this a normal thing after this type of surgery, or has my lovely wife just had a mid life (she is 36) crisis or what? She does not seem to realize how many people she is hurting, its almost as if she doesn't care. Can you help? She grudgingly agreed to see the Dr. on friday, but doesn,t think there is anything wrong.thanks for your help.....I am a patient man, but I gotta know if the surgery could be the reason for her drastic change.

Please help.

From HysterSisters

Recovery from a hysterectomy can be a simple process or one that takes an emotional toll on the family.

I think you are on the right track to encourage your wife to see a doctor for evaluation. Perhaps her hormones can be evaluated as well as her emotional health.

Dealing with the stress of healing can be very trying to a relationship. I would encourage you to pursue getting help for her .....and for yourself with a valued friend or counselor in your area.

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