Thank you mister hyster sister by Tiggrr
Thank you to whoever wrote its all about her in Mister hyster sisters. That became my husbands motto and finally got him to accept I needed the hysterectomy.
We went through 10 years together trying for kids with no luck, we tried adoption but were turned down.
I had decided I was going to get the surgery and leave him for putting my life at risk, instead I am finally happy knowing "no cancer can grow" and our non sexual intimacy is returning.
Hopefully the horizontal tango isn't affected by the surgery but only time will tell. But if my urges are anything to go on that will all work fine.
He need never know how close to seperation/divorse we really came. I really believe that post saved our relationship.