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Misterhystersisters.com is an information website for families of the Hysterectomy patient. Mister Hyster Sisters website is not intended to
take the place of a physician.
Hyster Sisters receives a lot of email from men. The email is usually short and to the point: What can I do to help my wife?

The Hyster Sisters website was created for "women to women" online support for hysterectomy decisions and support providing articles for pre-op, post-op and hormone therapy along with live discussions within the forums of the site.

But we know that the men, the husbands of the Hyster Sisters, lurk online, reading the website, trying to gather information to help them understand what is happening to their wives and girlfriends. They are frightened. They are confused. They want to help.

"Hello. My girlfriend had a hysterectomy today. She has had endometriosis since she was 12. I know that this is probably for the best but I am having a very difficult time trying to understand all the implications and I am scared to death of not being able to support her to the very best of my abilities. Any advice on what I can do to make her recovery more pleasant?"

"My wife has been a rock through this whole thing and I am the one who has been walking around like a train wreck. Other than the obvious, what can I do?"

"My wife is going to have a partial hysterectomy. I would like to know how best to care for her. What should she eat? Will she have chills? What do I need to prepare for emotionally? Anything that would help me care for her better? I would like to hear from all of you, because everyone has different needs. The more feedback I get, the better I can care for my wife. Thank you all for your help!"


And so, this website is for you: the men of the Hyster Sisters. It is our goal that this website will help you to take care of your Hyster Sister.

* Long Term Recovery?

My wife, (DPH), is 6 weeks out from LSH w/ oophorectomy. Incisions are healing well. She is experiencing some swelling when she sits up for a long period of time. She has much difficulty getting comfortable at night. She is still not comfortable driving (this past Friday was her first full day back to work). My wife tries to walk at least a mile on her treadmill every morning.

She read that it will take anywhere from 6 - 12 months to completely heal internally. Her doctor initially prescribed Premarin after surgery. This caused her to break out in hives after two weeks. The doctor then prescribed Cenestin, but this wasn't effective. She is now taking Estratest, and it seems to be doing the job. She has noticed a difference in skin temperature between her abdomen and any other area.

We both did a lot of research before her surgery (HysterSisters provided a wealth of information - thanks). We did not realize how little information would be available from the doctor or the hospital after surgery. We wanted to hear from anyone who could share their experiences with us and could give us an idea what to expect long-term with respect to recovery. Thanks.

From the HysterSisters:

Its not unusual to hear from women who are 6 weeks post-op hysterectomy who are not back to their normal selves. In fact, many report that when they are released to head back to work, they do not feel ready.

Tender bellies at 6 weeks should be discussed with a physician to make sure all is healing well, especially if the belly has a "temperature" and is hot to the touch. This could indicate an infection that requires medical attention and will slow up the healing from the hysterectomy.

In most cases, a tender belly at 6 weeks post-op means that perhaps "too much too soon" is happening. Maybe slow down the extra exercise and activities a bit. Your wife's body will talk to her. If she does too much, by the end of the day she will be more swollen and tender.

She should see a significant recovery milestone at 6 months and again at one year and you both will be able to rejoice in her feeling much better as time rolls on. Encourage her to keep reading at HysterSisters (and posting her questions there) as she needs input. We are here to help!

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