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Misterhystersisters.com is an information website for families of the Hysterectomy patient. Mister Hyster Sisters website is not intended to
take the place of a physician.
Hyster Sisters receives a lot of email from men. The email is usually short and to the point: What can I do to help my wife?

The Hyster Sisters website was created for "women to women" online support for hysterectomy decisions and support providing articles for pre-op, post-op and hormone therapy along with live discussions within the forums of the site.

But we know that the men, the husbands of the Hyster Sisters, lurk online, reading the website, trying to gather information to help them understand what is happening to their wives and girlfriends. They are frightened. They are confused. They want to help.

"Hello. My girlfriend had a hysterectomy today. She has had endometriosis since she was 12. I know that this is probably for the best but I am having a very difficult time trying to understand all the implications and I am scared to death of not being able to support her to the very best of my abilities. Any advice on what I can do to make her recovery more pleasant?"

"My wife has been a rock through this whole thing and I am the one who has been walking around like a train wreck. Other than the obvious, what can I do?"

"My wife is going to have a partial hysterectomy. I would like to know how best to care for her. What should she eat? Will she have chills? What do I need to prepare for emotionally? Anything that would help me care for her better? I would like to hear from all of you, because everyone has different needs. The more feedback I get, the better I can care for my wife. Thank you all for your help!"


And so, this website is for you: the men of the Hyster Sisters. It is our goal that this website will help you to take care of your Hyster Sister.

* What can I expect?

My wife is scheduled for her hysterectomy this coming Friday - they will be leaving the ovaries.

She is just shy of 42 and is very good physical shape. We are scheduled to go out of town in 2 weeks for a vacation in Cancun - her doctor has told her that this will not be a problem.

My questions are:
1. Is this true or just wishful thinking ?
2. What is the real recovery period for this type of hyster ?
3. What should I be prepared for for her post-op recovery period ?

From Hyster Sisters:

I think the doctor is being optimistic. At best, your wife would probably be exhausted and uncomfortable during your trip.

An average sort of recovery period is about 6-8 weeks. Depends on the way the surgery is done, what-all is being removed or repaired, and each individual's tolerance of pain and their healing capacity.

What to expect during her recovery...

Your wife will need *rest* - like feet-up, not having to do anything, relaxed *rest*. She should not be making meals, doing laundry, reaching, stooping, lifting, bending... even sitting up is hard for a while.

She will need help with chores around the house and someone getting her meals for her. She may requires help showering and bathing for a few days.

She may be strangely emotional and need additional TLC! She may feel good, and ambitious at times, then crash suddenly! She won't be able to drive a car for a while.

Read through the rest of our FAQ here at Mister Hyster Sisters for a better sense of her needs.

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