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Misterhystersisters.com is an information website for families of the Hysterectomy patient. Mister Hyster Sisters website is not intended to
take the place of a physician.
Hyster Sisters receives a lot of email from men. The email is usually short and to the point: What can I do to help my wife?

The Hyster Sisters website was created for "women to women" online support for hysterectomy decisions and support providing articles for pre-op, post-op and hormone therapy along with live discussions within the forums of the site.

But we know that the men, the husbands of the Hyster Sisters, lurk online, reading the website, trying to gather information to help them understand what is happening to their wives and girlfriends. They are frightened. They are confused. They want to help.

"Hello. My girlfriend had a hysterectomy today. She has had endometriosis since she was 12. I know that this is probably for the best but I am having a very difficult time trying to understand all the implications and I am scared to death of not being able to support her to the very best of my abilities. Any advice on what I can do to make her recovery more pleasant?"

"My wife has been a rock through this whole thing and I am the one who has been walking around like a train wreck. Other than the obvious, what can I do?"

"My wife is going to have a partial hysterectomy. I would like to know how best to care for her. What should she eat? Will she have chills? What do I need to prepare for emotionally? Anything that would help me care for her better? I would like to hear from all of you, because everyone has different needs. The more feedback I get, the better I can care for my wife. Thank you all for your help!"


And so, this website is for you: the men of the Hyster Sisters. It is our goal that this website will help you to take care of your Hyster Sister.
Frequently Asked Questions

1. A Hysterectomy? What is it?
2. A Hysterectomy? What Kind?
3. Go to doctor appointment with her?
4. How can the rest of the family and friends help?
5. How to Prepare the Room?
6. Light housework? What is that?
7. No Libido?
8. Post-op bleeding?
9. SEX! When can we get back to normal?
10. Swelly belly? Tender belly?
11. Trouble getting out of bed?
12. When can she cook?
13. Why is my wife not feeling better?

* Why is my wife not feeling better?

I keep thinking my wife should be feeling better. Could she still be in pain? She sleeps a lot! The doctor said 6 weeks to recover. What's taking so long?

We know you want a healthy and active wife but healing does take time. Even if she had a laproscopic hysterectomy, there is still much the body must do to heal. Add to the recovery time if the Hyster Sisters had anterior and/or posterior repair, endometriosis or adenomyosis or any additional surgery during her hysterectomy.

Many Hyster Sisters report back to us that at 4 weeks they are still not feeling well and many are too exhausted to consider returning to work at 6 weeks. (Others are ready to resume normal activities at 6 weeks).

You know the saying, "One picture is worth 1,000 words"? Visit this website www.pelvicfloor.com to look at actual pictures of a hysterectomy so they can see what is really involved.

Check with your Hyster Sister's doctor and listen to her. Feeling exhausted, drained and sore even at 8 weeks isn't uncommon.

Of course if she is running a fever at any time, call her surgeon and take her to his/her offices for a checkup.


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