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Misterhystersisters.com is an information website for families of the Hysterectomy patient. Mister Hyster Sisters website is not intended to
take the place of a physician.
Hyster Sisters receives a lot of email from men. The email is usually short and to the point: What can I do to help my wife?

The Hyster Sisters website was created for "women to women" online support for hysterectomy decisions and support providing articles for pre-op, post-op and hormone therapy along with live discussions within the forums of the site.

But we know that the men, the husbands of the Hyster Sisters, lurk online, reading the website, trying to gather information to help them understand what is happening to their wives and girlfriends. They are frightened. They are confused. They want to help.

"Hello. My girlfriend had a hysterectomy today. She has had endometriosis since she was 12. I know that this is probably for the best but I am having a very difficult time trying to understand all the implications and I am scared to death of not being able to support her to the very best of my abilities. Any advice on what I can do to make her recovery more pleasant?"

"My wife has been a rock through this whole thing and I am the one who has been walking around like a train wreck. Other than the obvious, what can I do?"

"My wife is going to have a partial hysterectomy. I would like to know how best to care for her. What should she eat? Will she have chills? What do I need to prepare for emotionally? Anything that would help me care for her better? I would like to hear from all of you, because everyone has different needs. The more feedback I get, the better I can care for my wife. Thank you all for your help!"


And so, this website is for you: the men of the Hyster Sisters. It is our goal that this website will help you to take care of your Hyster Sister.
Frequently Asked Questions

1. A Hysterectomy? What is it?
2. A Hysterectomy? What Kind?
3. Go to doctor appointment with her?
4. How can the rest of the family and friends help?
5. How to Prepare the Room?
6. Light housework? What is that?
7. No Libido?
8. Post-op bleeding?
9. SEX! When can we get back to normal?
10. Swelly belly? Tender belly?
11. Trouble getting out of bed?
12. When can she cook?
13. Why is my wife not feeling better?

* Light housework? What is that?

My wife's surgeon said that as she felt better, she can do light housework. Exactly what is *light* housework?

Its important that your wife doesn't do anything that would exceed the limitations of lifting that her doctor has specified. (Usually this is nothing over 5 pounds.) But it isn't just the lifting of an object that could be harmful but also pushing, pulling, straining that could be just as damaging.

Light housework can mean: dusting, dishes, cooking. Laundry is allowed if someone else lifts the laundry baskets and your Hyster Sisters just puts the laundry into the machine a piece or two at a time and folds it as it comes out of the dryer.

This is certainly not the time to spring clean and move the sofa to gather up the dust bunnies reproducing under it.

As your Hyster Sister feels better and is healing each day her energy level will add more and more to her housework list.

"My doctor said absolutely *No Vaccuming*. I've asked him if he can extend these instructions forever."

Picking up pillows and repositioning them....allowed

Turning on dishwasher after others have loaded it....allowed

Changing roll of toilet paper....allowed

Flipping on light switch....allowed

Folding laundry...allowed

Vacuuming....NOT ALLOWED

Sweeping....NOT ALLOWED

Carrying laundry across house to washer...NOT ALLOWED


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