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Misterhystersisters.com is an information website for families of the Hysterectomy patient. Mister Hyster Sisters website is not intended to
take the place of a physician.
Hyster Sisters receives a lot of email from men. The email is usually short and to the point: What can I do to help my wife?

The Hyster Sisters website was created for "women to women" online support for hysterectomy decisions and support providing articles for pre-op, post-op and hormone therapy along with live discussions within the forums of the site.

But we know that the men, the husbands of the Hyster Sisters, lurk online, reading the website, trying to gather information to help them understand what is happening to their wives and girlfriends. They are frightened. They are confused. They want to help.

"Hello. My girlfriend had a hysterectomy today. She has had endometriosis since she was 12. I know that this is probably for the best but I am having a very difficult time trying to understand all the implications and I am scared to death of not being able to support her to the very best of my abilities. Any advice on what I can do to make her recovery more pleasant?"

"My wife has been a rock through this whole thing and I am the one who has been walking around like a train wreck. Other than the obvious, what can I do?"

"My wife is going to have a partial hysterectomy. I would like to know how best to care for her. What should she eat? Will she have chills? What do I need to prepare for emotionally? Anything that would help me care for her better? I would like to hear from all of you, because everyone has different needs. The more feedback I get, the better I can care for my wife. Thank you all for your help!"


And so, this website is for you: the men of the Hyster Sisters. It is our goal that this website will help you to take care of your Hyster Sister.
Frequently Asked Questions

1. A Hysterectomy? What is it?
2. A Hysterectomy? What Kind?
3. Go to doctor appointment with her?
4. How can the rest of the family and friends help?
5. How to Prepare the Room?
6. Light housework? What is that?
7. No Libido?
8. Post-op bleeding?
9. SEX! When can we get back to normal?
10. Swelly belly? Tender belly?
11. Trouble getting out of bed?
12. When can she cook?
13. Why is my wife not feeling better?

* When can she cook?

When can she cook?

Many Hyster Sisters have help from family or friends for a number of weeks after surgery. Even then, getting up to fix a full meal was difficult and tiring. Plan on bringing in healthy food or picking up frozen casseroles from the grocery store to cook following the directions.

Make a salad and *Voila!* you have a meal. Your wife will need help with kitchen chores. We'd like to suggest learning to help her all the time but at least be on hand to help her when she is up a bit. Be understanding if she is asleep on the couch when you come home.

Cooking activities should be resumed gradually - just like all the other activites. While your wife might feel up to doing a few things almost right after surgery she should be careful because she'll probably feel a bit shakey- and accidents can happen!

She may be fine after the first week or so for preparing light meals - and by that we mean meals that do not involve lifting heavy pots!! A large pot to cook spaghetti in can be taken out of the cupboard and put on the stove -- a pot full of boiling water and cooked spaghetti is better left to someone else to carry and drain!

Stove-top meals are probably easier for her to prepare too - because they don't involve a lot of bending to get things in and out of the oven.

If you can help with any of the preparation work and let her save her energy for when she is really needed, that would work out well.

Bon Appetit!


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